In honor of International Women’s Month.
Williams Sonoma Photoshoot. Left to right: Jenn, Me, Melissa, Candice, Neyda
Unfortunately, I was going through an unexpected divorce (although I don’t speak publicly about this painful time, it actually turned out to be one of the greatest blessings of my life. Perhaps I’ll share more details at a later date…). Immediately following the shoot, I was going to meet with my now ex-husband to sign off on our house, close out all of our joint bank accounts and get our divorce papers notarized. I was an emotional mess to say the least. Because I am always professional, I composed myself through the shoot, but broke down when everything was over, and I was placing my items in my car’s trunk. I did not know Candice and had never met her before that morning. However, I’ll never forget her walking over to me with great concern on her pretty face and asking, “What’s wrong?” I briefly told her what was happening and that I had to leave right away. She said, “Girl, you will be OK. Let’s get wine tonight!” As I got in my car, she suggested meeting at Postino (a wine restaurant in Phoenix). Because of her compassion, I was able to get through the next painful hour and a half because I had plans in place and something to look forward to! That night, we became fast friends and I realized she has a very kind soul. Throughout our fun friendship we have traveled and gone to many blogging events together, such as attending New York Fashion Week, Sedona, Happy Hours, fabulous dinners and I even helped host a baby shower for her darling daughter Nixon, who is now 7 months old….as you are reading this, Candice and I are boarding a plane for a few fun filled days in Napa!
At a St. Jude event
As we all know, social media is a great platform and is truly the heart of my business. Unfortunately, because people can be anonymous, this can help breed online bullying. While I have been the recipient of such ugly behavior (and it feels terrible) it has only made me more determined to show true kindness and support to other women. The Blogger/ Influencer world is full of competition, however if we choose kindness over jealousy, great friendships can form.
Fun times while in NYC for New York Fashion Week where we stayed at The Surrey (where Meghan Markle just stayed!)
Some of my best friends have actually come out of my years working at The Bubbly Blonde. You never know what private battles a person is going through. Candice held out a kind hand when my world was falling apart, and I learned a great deal from her empathy. I want to thank her for being a true friend.
At a country concert for KNIX Radio
Why should we try to tear each other down, when we can actually enjoy and learn from one other? Candice and I often share contacts and advice to help each other grow our blogs. Be happy for other people because someday, it will be your turn to succeed and you will want people building you up, not tearing you down.
At a Phoenix Suns Game
If there are women who refuse to show kindness to you, reconsider their place in your life. When I see negativity, I get out of the way! Enjoy National Women’s Month and use these 30 days to learn more about the beautiful women around you. Your heart will thank you.
At a Bruno Mars concert
I’ll leave you with these wise words by Anthony T. Hicks: “There will always be someone better looking, better off, smarter, richer, thinner, taller, shorter, have more friends than you, a better car or a better house. You might not have what they have, but when you look in the mirror, that’s you! And that’s something that they don’t have and will never have!”
At an event for The Palmeraie at Hanger One in Scottsdale
I am in my 30’s and was a professional model during my teens and 20’s, meaning my skin always needed to look its best. Truthfully, I have struggled with some skin issues in the past, but now that I’m a beauty, fashion and travel influencer, I want (and need) to always have photo-ready great skin!
My mom who in her 60s, loves discovering and researching new cutting edge, non-surgical beauty treatments and it shows on her face. Both my mom and I have very fair skin and our results may be different from yours.
Photo taken of my Mom and I for a magazine in December 2018 after treatments
When I arrived at Arizona Facial Plastics (sans makeup) I filled out my required paperwork and once completed, I was taken into a sleek room full of numerous high-tech cameras.
The photographer took many images of my face from different angles, with each specific camera uncovering the good, the bad and the ugly truth about my skin. The final results clearly pointed out my redness, lines, the virtual age of my skin, as well as its true texture.
While fascinating, it was a little shocking! However, this is part of Arizona Facial Plastics terrific knowledge about real skin improvement. I took a deep breath and had a truthful discussion about how to best improve my skin. We discussed my specific treatment plan and I decided to go for it. Let my great skin begin!
From June to December, as suggested by the AFP skin experts, I had a HydraFacial, Vivace and the Lutronic LaseMD completed.
Left: June 2018 | Right: January 2019 (these photos are unedited)
The HydraFacial was the first step in my treatment (completed in June). This is a multi-step treatment to cleanse, exfoliate, extract impurities and dead skin cells while at the same time quenching skin with vital nutrients like antioxidants, peptides and hyaluronic acid.
The HydraFacial is fabulous for any skin type and takes about 30 minutes. The treatment is soothing, refreshing and non-irritating. My skin felt great, super clean, looked fresh and after the treatment I had zero down time. I did not put any makeup on for 24 hours to be sure my pores remained clean (this was my preference).
A few weeks later, I had a VIVACE treatment, which is the newest generation of Microneedling and is pretty amazing! The VIVACE is FDA approved and is a nonsurgical treatment for contouring and tightening the face, neck and body, helps with the production of collagen and reduces fine lines and wrinkles. (Kind of like a one stop shopping treatment for many skin issues).
Does this treatment hurt? Well, let’s just say that AFP is fabulous providing top notch numbing which was applied about 30 minutes prior to the treatment. Because of this wonderful numbing cream, I did not feel a thing! I was very red after the treatment and remained pretty pink into the next afternoon. I could have left the house but decided to just lay low and got caught up on emails.
On the 2nd day, I was able to apply light makeup and leave the house. The 3rd day I began to peel, and makeup did not stay on my face, but I was beginning to notice some subtle improvement with my skin- it looked firmer and smoother despite the peeling. By the 4th and 5th day, the peeling stopped, and my skin looked great! Strong advice: Don’t pick your flaking or peeling skin, just let it process and heal naturally. My skin is very fair and has pink undertones, so I looked like I was pretty sunburned, but it went away within days. Downtimes are different for everyone, of course. I had one VIVACE treatment completed and highly recommend!
Once all healing from my Vivace treatment had completed (Arizona Facial Plastics is very careful not to rush their patients in their skin improvement journey) my LaseMD treatment was scheduled. This is a gentle laser that delivers specialized nanosecond laser energy, which reduces visible skin pigmentation.
LaseMD not only improves uneven skin pigment but can also reduce the appearance of textural irregularities and fine lines. This treatment is great for dermal pigmented lesions, melasma, tattoo removal, epidermal pigmented lesions, epidermal nevi, scars, acne scars, non-ablative resurfacing, pigmented and vascular lesions and facial telangiectasia. Because I wanted to get rid of some old acne scars and pigmented skin, Arizona Facial Plastics told me that it would take more than one LaseMD treatment.
I appreciated their honesty and had 3 LaseMD treatments completed. With this treatment, my down time was approximately 2-3 days when I did not leave the house (I suggest having this done on a Thursday or Friday and taking the weekend to get lots of things done around the house). I was very red and pretty swollen for the first 36 hours and was specifically instructed not to put makeup on because I had opened up the pores on my face. Although there is some downtime with this laser, I highly recommend it because the results are worth it.
Fine lines and wrinkles around my eyes have lessened
Left: June 2018 | Right: January 2019
Brown Spots have lessened
Left: June 2018 | Right: January 2019
AFP suggested that my mom have CO2 laser resurfacing done, which she thought was a great plan. Laser resurfacing with carbon dioxide (CO2) is clinically proven to improve the texture, tone, and health of skin.
The treatment works by removing the thin outer layers of skin and serves two purposes. It eliminates superficial skin blemishes and promotes the development of new, younger skin. CO2 laser resurfacing is unique from other types of skin resurfacing because the procedure removes the damaged layers of skin and softens wrinkles and fine lines. All said, it gives skin a refreshed and vibrant appearance, while achieving dramatic improvements without surgery or a great deal of downtime.
Left: Immediately after the CO2 | Right: 4 days after the CO2
My mom’s face was pretty pink and swollen the first 2 days, but she continued to improve daily. She is absolutely thrilled with her results and feels the few days of downtime were more than worth the end results. Because she wasn’t in any discomfort, she simply ordered home grocery delivery, cooked a lot and cleaned out closets!
My conclusion? I definitely see wonderful improvement with past skin discoloration, my texture and fine lines. I feel that my skin is firmer and has a healthier glow. With my results continuing, it’s really great to have all my first group of photos to look back on and get excited over my results. I highly recommend all my treatments!
My mom’s conclusion? Mom is super excited about the CO2 Laser resurfacing, especially how much smoother the skin around her eyes looks. Her skin continues to look firmer and smoother overall. She says, “Thumbs up Arizona Facial Plastics!”
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Last week, I made an appointment with David’s Bridal to try and find an affordable cocktail dress for an upcoming wedding.
I don’t know if you’re aware, but David’s Bridal sells a LOT more than just bridal gowns. If you visit their website, you’ll see there are prom dresses, cocktail dresses and even evening gowns that are reasonably priced!
On the day of my appointment, I arrived at David’s Bridal and was immediately greeted by 3 of their friendly staff, cheerfully asking if I had an appointment. I said I did, gave them my name and was quickly introduced to Delaney, my personal stylist. Delaney was kind, knowledgeable and asked me what I was considering. I explained that I will be attending a wedding in mid-February and am looking for a great (yet affordable) classic dress. Delaney listened carefully, then took me around the (well stocked) store.
As we passed the color coordinated racks in the dress department, when I would stop to admire a dress, Delaney would add it to my “try on” selection. Once we had gathered more than a few gowns, Delaney took my measurements to make sure she had my perfect size.
She took the dresses into the back and came out with my correct size. I began trying on some really beautiful dresses and gowns, that fit me perfectly!
Honestly, my first try on was this GORGEOUS red cocktail dress!! Since the wedding is formal and has a Valentine’s Day theme, I knew I had found the perfect dress! I love that it has pockets (brilliant!) which will hold my cell phone, lip gloss and leave my hands free during the reception.
I also found a darling cream lace dress that is perfect for a luncheon I have coming up….it’s simply beautiful.
David’s Bridal is not just for a wedding dresses and everyone needs to know that!
They have an amazing shoe collection, lingerie, jewelry and gifts for the bridal party. I can now say that David’s Bridal will be one of my “go to” stores when I have an event- especially if I want to keep my purchases affordable, while creating an expensive finished look.
Thank you David’s Bridal for partnering with me on this post, I can’t wait to wear my new red cocktail gown next month!